Valentine's Day Celebration

It's been 2 months since I last updated my blog. Hehhee some of my friends are asking why have I not been updating my blog. There is only one reason. This is because I am "LAZY". I have always been lazy like a PIG. Hahahhaha ...

Yesterday was Valentine's day. We didn't have much celebration. Well, I always believe that once you signed on the dotted line, there will be no more suprises. I believed that it don't happen to all the couples but it happened to me. I know Casey is never a romantic person. Therefore, we decide to celebrate this day with another couple. Hhehheheh... Group outing is more fun. We can share the food, we can chat about anything under the sky.

After surverying for half a day, we decided on Emerald lodge at Mount Faber. I was looking forward to it when my friend told me that it will cost $230 per couple for a set dinner. In the end, we settled for Hooters at Clarke Quay. Next, we proceeded to Cheese cake cafe for dessert. Their cakes are really nice. They won't leave any after taste in the mouth. The price is slightly higher at about $7.90 Per slice. I guess they are really famous. When we arrived at 1145pm, they told us that they will close at 1230am sharp. They have a policy that every person will have to order at least one item. I was thinking how come this shop is so strict with their policy & why they are so 'proud'. We went all the way to east coast road from clarke quay therefore we will want to try it out no matter how proud they are. Hheheeh after tastingthe cakes, I understand why they are so "proud". Their cakes are really nice. At 1230am sharp, they informed us that they are closed for the day. They are telling us to disappear. Hhahahah

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Holiday Mood

I will be busy for the next 2 weeks. There will be lots of gathering with our friends. I'm looking forward to all of the gathering as it had been a long time since we last met.

20/12 - Pre Xmas celebration cum gift exchange at my house. We will have steamboat cum ze Chye, Roast beef & log cake for dinner. Yummy!!!! There will be so much food :P

The ingredients I had thought of for steamboat are - Fish (40pcs), Pork Ball (2Pkt), Fish Dumplings (2pkts), Hotdog (2pkts), Luncheon meat (2 cans), Fried Beancurd skin (4 Pkts), Chicken slices (2 Drumbstick), Pork slices (3 Trays), Prawn (1kg), Pacific Clams (1 can), Vegetable, Golden mushroom & corns

For Ze Chye, I will buy Fried Tofu (Medium), Sweet & Sour Pork (Medium), Fried You Tiao (Medium) & lastly singapore most famous seafood "CHILLI CRAB with FRIED MANTOU'.

We will also order "ROast beef"as this is a special request from my best friend Weiyan.

We will have Gelare ice-cream log cake for dessert. Thinking of it, I am drooling now :P I'm worried I have too much food for 11-12 of us.

21/12 - Gathering with Pearl & Angela at Verandah Cafe at Shangrila Hotel. I heard that the high tea there is famous. I hope it is really famous & good.

24/12 - Gathering at my house with Casey's ex-colleagues. My best friend "Eliss" had sent one recipe book from coles for xmas food ideas. I think I will get some ideas from there.

26/12 (Midnight) - 4/12 - Honeymoon @ Beijing with all my family members. THere will be 11 of us. I am really looking forward to this trip as this is the 1st time Casey & myself will be travelling to a winter country. Hurray!!!!

I wonder would I have enough time to tidy my house before I go on a holiday. There are so many presents for me to wrap but I have yet to start wrapping.

Yesterday, I went to Lei Garden restaurant for Dim Sum Lunch with my family. The food was good butthe price was slightly pricey. Will update pictures later...

Enjoying myself for the past 1month

It had been one month plus since I got married. What have am I been doing? I have been enjoying eating & shopping.

I have so much pictures to share but it is really taking too long to upload on my blog. Please visit the following link to view my pictures.

6/12 - Outing to Safari with Weiyan & his Darling

7/12 - Pinic at East Coast. Shopping at Orchard. I bought my favourite shoes for Chinese New Year. We had dinner at Crystal Jade Korean restaurant. It was a bit expensive at $40 per pax. Nevertheless, we enjoyed outselves.

No Updates for a long time

I have been too lazy to update my blog. Been doing this & that...

Just some qns that puzzles me ... Seems like the person who upset me didnt know what is happening ...

1. How do you feel when ur partner asked u to share a room with another couple doing ur honeymoon trip??

2. How do you feel when ur partner forgotten the model of the coach bag u r yeaning for? U had already repeated many times which bag you wan?

3. How do you feel when ur partner just cant give you his dad's invitation list for your upcoming wedding?

4. How do you feel when he just cant remember what you ask him to do?

5. Howdo you feel when he cannot remember what food you have been longing for?

No many how many million times you tell him he is still the same ... Tell me what will you do?

Hahah im always a happy girl.. Is just too tiring to think all of the above. Just take one time as it is ba ... very sien, very tired but cant pour out my feeling coz I don't know how to describe.

Maybe I shouldnt expect too much. Maybe is my fault to expect this & that.

But no worries, I will always be a happy girl :)

Thoughts.....

Been on crazy diet for the past 1 weeks past. This diet had to last for 2 weeks. Everyday my meals will consist of the following :
Bfast - Soya Milk (no Sugar) with 2 Eggs
Lunch - Chicken drumstick with cucumber juice
Dinner - 2 eGGS
Daily Beverage includes only CUCUMBER JUICE
How well have I been coping? QUite good... though I always have craving for my favourite food but I always manage to control myself. Wat's the result so Far? I lost 3kg but it just stopped there. I doubt I can go further.
Im quite happy with my result so far, hopefully I am able to get more variety of wedding gowns for my photoshoot. I hope I will be able to do some exercise. Well, it is easy to say but difficult to do.

Still hoping to get back my $7oo but hehehe is a long & complicated procedure which I hate it but then I do not wish those dishonest retailers to con my $700. Hahaha

I have been thinking a lot lately. I was quite upset for a while over some issue. I know things & life have change for everybody & their priority are different now. I have a lots of friends but not a lot of close friend. Why do I say that?? hehehe Well certain things I rather keep it to my heart :)

Im not a happy girl!!

I wonder shouldn't the preparation of wedding be fun & enjoyable & exciting? How come I don't have any of the feeling? I feel very sien.. Dun feel like preparing anymore. Can I back out now? How come I drag preparing now wherelse I always look forward to it last time.. My $700 is gone. Wat should I do? Can god give me some direction? Sigh .. I just wana hide under my bed forever ... Life is boring

My thoughts...

I went into the forum again today to see about the latest comment on Mr & Miss Wedding Club. Sigh!!! There is another piece of negative comment I read. It really make me feel very very discouraged. I totally had no confident in the company. These are the comments I read. I quoted directly from the forum I read online.

""everyone: did anyone went down to M&M(Venus) today? My sis supposed to have her outdoor photoshoot today, NO GOWN! was told theres conflict btw the owner n prof tan and the gown section was locked by the owner hence she din get to wear her gown fro the outdoor PS!!! anyone gog down b4 sunday? my next appt is sunday at teh gown section, hope everything is fine by then.....................................""

""I called but no one answered...""

""i called! after a looong ring someone ans and its xiu hua, she is in the sales office, i asked her wats wrong, why so messy, she explained that new owner and the landlord had some misunderstanding, the gown area is still locked up. They will be moving to a new, bigger location directly above their sales office. Haiz, i kinda scared leh cos i will be overseas for sometime, don wanna come back then find my BS closed down leh, i told her my fears, she ask not to worry, the new owner have big capital, will develop venus well... Agnes not doing my gown anymore, she handed it to jenny.... my fit is on 25may but i will go down earlier to take a look.....""

If you are going to be bride or the customer of the bridal shop, will u beworried? I really have no confident that the shop will still open in Oct. I just hope they can return partial of my deposit (ie $700) which I paid 2 weeks back but I know this is impossible. The conditions stated,once payment have been made, no refund will be given.

I am really very tired for worrying about all this. I already pay $2k so I really cant give up on the package yet. I called one of our local organisation whereby most of the consumer will call for help when they have problems with the retailers. Upset to say that they didnt give any suitable solution. My qns to them was "I had paid a deposit to this A company. Now the A company had sold their company or change their label to B company. Can I ask for a refund for the 2nd deposit paid (2 weeks back) since at the moment when I paid I didnt know they will issue me with a "B" company receipt." Well, the organisation staff was not so friendly though. He asked why did I jump the gun saying the company might close down. I told him my fear. After a while, he told me since the company had not ceased operation, I should not be worrying too much. Well all the while I had never believed in this kind of organisation. But since Im so desperate, I decideto give it a try. The staff commented that since the company had not wind up, there is nothing much they can do. Hahah at that moment, I really feel like telling them, do you think you can help us if the company really wind up or do u expect me to call for help when it close down. It will be too late then. By that time, the organisation will tell us, Im so sorry but I cant find the person in charge anymore.

Anyway, I cant blame anyone la. We are the one who made the decision. This is really really a very bad choice that I cant get over it la ... Im trying to cheer up but how? But from what we know, the new company's director are "CHIENSE"- CHINA CHINESE. 95% of their staff are from china. I really have bad impression on CHINESE so how can I hold on till oct?

Hhahahah anyway just wait & see ba .. Im very tired mentally liao. very sien...